Monday, May 11, 2009

Possibility - Need Prayers - Update - Again

We've had a process going on for awhile now, and I was finally able to spill the beans about it and ask for some prayers.

Ryan has been offered a job at Whiteman AFB as a technician. He'd do the same job he does now, only as a guard member. But, he would be a civilian mainly, so we'd have some changes like no military insurance (might be a good thing?) or privliges like the comissary and shopping.

We are in the process of a program called Palace Chase where the Air Force decides if they will let him out of his active duty contract and change it to a guard one. Active duty Air Force is overstaffed in his rank at 140%. So chances are they will let him out.

They have up to 8 weeks to let us know if he is approved. If he is approved it will be a quick quick time for us to sell the house and move. Although we have made Virginia home for the past 5 years through our church, jobs, and www.tidewatermommies.com, we are excited about the possibilities that lie ahead.

Ryan loves his job, and he could continue that, while we would be closer to home for things we were planning on missing like 10 year reunions, weddings, etc. Please be thinking of us. And no that no matter what, we love ALL of you and hate tough decisions like this!

UPDATE
Ryan's commander disapproved him, but we still send it on the personnel center and they have the final say.

SECOND UPDATE
Ryan has someone call before he turned in the paperwork. So far they said he would likely be approved in his job category, they are turning down jobs that deploy a lot. They also told him that it does not matter whether the commander approves or disapproves.

13 comments:

SJT said...

Things happen and don't happen for reasons. We hope this one happens for you since we will LOVE having you closer to us. But if it doesn't we will continue loving you guys from a distance. :)

Anonymous said...

I am sad to hear this but you have to do what is best for your family. I think you have helped keep me sane since Sara left 3 yrs ago! I guess if you do end up moving, thats a new place I get to travel too! Know that you have our love and support no matter what happens.

Jackie said...

Wow, I didn't even know there was a base there...I guess I'm only familiar with Naval bases. :) I hope things work out for you guys.

Heather said...

As much as I will miss you and be TOTALLY upset if you leave before the baby is born I am praying that it will all work out for you. I bet your mom is thrilled!

Pam said...

You will be led where you "need" to go. We will miss you if you leave, but know that you will find your way!

Anonymous said...

Wow can't help but feel excited about you being so close possibly!!! Will pray for you of course. :) Hilbo

Jen said...

As exciting as that is for us Missouri folk, I know how scary change can be. Where ever you are, I know you guys will continue to make a wonderful home for your growing family and bless people near and far with your friendship.

Ice Queen said...

We will always have our Disney World memories! You better keep blogging so we can keep in touch!
I love you, TARD

Tricia said...

Wow, that is a big change. You are definitely going at this decision the right way. A little prayer and discernment of God's will never hurt anyone.

Lynn and Mike said...

We would LOVE to have you back in Missouri!!!!! That said, we will be here to love and support you no matter where you end up! We will be praying that this decision/ transition/ opportunity is all that you need it to be.

Jennifer Lynn Dumont said...

Change can be hard, trust me i know, but just ask God for the strength you need to make this HUGE decision! Try not to get to overwhelmed, i know easier said then done, especially with new changes in your life.. Your friends at tidewatermommies are going to MISS you so much but ultimately the decision is yours! Good luck with whatever you decide, my prayers are with you!! ((hugs)) Love you!

HAB said...

It will all work out for the best. We may not understand why, but God has his reasons and will lead in the right path. And then there is the nice bonus of being closer to family and friends. Bonuses are always good. :O)

Mike and Mandi Wilfong said...

We completely understand what a tough decision you guys are making to even STEP in that direction. We were right where you are ... a year ago. There are definite pros and cons in either direction and God knows what is best. Once we put it in God's hands, the decision was easier. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this possible transition! Love you all.
Mike and Mandi